Yup, I've got them.
I am incredibly selfish and hard-headed. I gloss over problems by being too light-hearted. I avoid conflict even when I should stick up for myself. I can't accept help from anyone. I'm a lousy fighter. I can't let things go.
I'm also a pretty good person. I don't like to see people hurting. I always try to think the best of people. I find the bright side even when there really isn't one. I'm self-reliant. I take good care of the kidlets.
Just observations. I've been cranky lately and the first list is really upstaging the second list. I need to change that before it ruins the good things in my life.